Why Introverts Orchestrate Amazing Proposals

Introverts aren’t known for planning elaborate public spectacles. It’s just not their nature. But the best proposal is rarely the loudest or the largest. The best proposals come from the heart, and are the result of genuine reflection and careful consideration of the person you love. What do they want? What do they need?

Chances are, if your partner loves you as much as you love them, you can’t go wrong just being yourself. So if you’re an introvert, and you’re wondering if you have what it takes to orchestrate a proposal worthy of the one you love, consider this:

1. Introverts are better at keeping secrets.

You’re less likely to gossip or make small talk that could lead to a spoiled surprise. Knowing how to keep things under wraps is essential to executing a proposal that your partner will remember for the rest of their life.

2. Introverts are detail-oriented.

You want to know everything before making a decision and often have an easier time organizing plans because you’ve already considered all the options. You don’t just call the restaurant. You do the research and make sure you know which questions to ask before picking up the phone.

And you most likely don’t just choose the first engagement ring you see or take Aunt Harriet’s advice on what would be best. You study the 4 Cs or talk to a diamond expert and make thoughtful decisions, ensuring you get the best diamond (or gemstone) and ring setting for your partner.

3. Introverts crave intimacy.

Introverts are usually great listeners. You’re more concerned with hearing what the other person has to say than with waiting for your own turn to talk. That helps you create a proposal that’s truly about about the two of you (and not a performance for anyone else).

4. Introverts understand that less is more.

You don’t need to get on a knee in Yankee Stadium, surrounded by a huge, loud crowd of strangers. In fact, if you’re like most introverts, that’s the exact opposite of what you envision as the perfect proposal. There’s nothing more romantic than a little privacy, and isn’t that all an introvert wants?

5. Introverts think things through – thoroughly.

You’re hesitant to act on impulse, and will instead mull over the pros and cons of every outcome. This may sound like a drawback until you consider how important this proposal really is. A proposal, above anything else, is supposed to be contemplated and considered. It isn’t spur-of-the-moment, and neither are introverts.

Good things come to those who wait, and an introvert knows how to take their time, think about all the factors at play, and make the best decision for their partner and themselves.

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