Proposal Checklist: Everything You Need to Plan the Perfect Moment

You’ve found the person — now you just need to find the words (and the ring).

If you’re planning to propose and feel like you have no idea where to start, you’re not alone.

This is your no-fluff, guy-friendly, no-cheesy-stuff checklist for pulling off a proposal that’s heartfelt, well-timed, and unforgettable.

The 10-Point Proposal Checklist 

1. Know What Ring They Want

Check their Pinterest, ask friends, or browse Ritani’s Ring Studio

Not sure? Go with a lab diamond solitaire — clean, classic, safe.

2. Set a Budget You’re Comfortable With

Don’t go into debt. We offer engagement rings starting under $2,000.

Want lab vs natural? Use our Diamond Price Comparison

3. Pick a Date (Avoid Holidays Unless They Love It)

Choose a meaningful weekend or memory

Don’t do it at someone else’s wedding (unless asked!)

4. Decide on Private vs Public

Introverts? Go private. Extroverts? Consider family or friends nearby.

You don’t need a crowd to make it count.

5. Have the Ring Ready Early

Made-to-order rings take 2–3 weeks

Or schedule a Free In-Person Preview

6. Rehearse What You Want to Say

It doesn’t have to be perfect — just be real.

Include a personal memory or inside joke.

7. Don’t Forget the Details

Photographer? Champagne? New outfit?

Even if simple, think 1 step ahead.

8. Get the Right Ring Size

Sneak one from their drawer or use our Free Ring Sizer

Too nervous? Resize later — we do it for free.

9. Have a Backup Plan (Just in Case)

Rainy day? Sudden nerves? No problem. Don’t force it.

10. Celebrate the Moment

Book dinner, plan a low-key getaway, or just enjoy the afterglow.

Bonus Tips from Ritani Customers

“I kept the ring in my car’s glove box for two weeks just waiting for the right moment. Don’t overthink it — trust your gut.” — Mike, NJ

“I booked free in-person preview with Ritani to confirm my diamond choice. Took 20 mins and saved me $1,000.” — Aaron, Chicago

Watch the video below to learn more about 10 steps proposal checklist.