The Empire State Building Proposal That Has Everyone Talking—And What It Teaches Us About Choosing the Perfect Ring

By Marisa D |
July 2, 2026
couples proposal on top of empire state building

You Don’t Need to Climb the Empire State Building to Create an Unforgettable Proposal

A proposal should take your partner’s breath away—not put yours at risk.
 
This week, headlines were dominated by a couple who illegally climbed the Empire State Building’s antenna, more than 1,400 feet above New York City, before getting engaged. The dramatic stunt quickly spread across social media, reminding everyone just how far some people will go to create a memorable proposal.

It made us think about something interesting.
 
People don’t remember proposals because they’re dangerous.
 
They remember them because they’re personal.

The Best Proposals Tell Your Story—Not Someone Else’s

Every year, millions of couples get engaged. While proposal trends come and go, one thing remains constant:

The proposals people remember years later are rarely the biggest, most expensive, or most elaborate.

They’re the ones that feel authentic.

Maybe it’s where you had your first date.

Maybe it’s your favorite neighborhood.

Maybe it’s a quiet beach at sunrise.

Maybe it’s your living room with your closest family waiting in the next room.

The location creates the memory.

The Ring Lasts Longer Than the Proposal

A proposal lasts a few minutes.

An engagement ring is something your partner will wear every single day for decades.

That’s why choosing the right ring deserves just as much attention as planning the proposal itself.

Instead of rushing into one of life’s biggest purchases, today’s couples spend weeks—or even months—researching diamonds, comparing settings, learning about precious metals, and understanding what really impacts beauty and value.

The more informed your decision, the more confident you’ll feel when it’s time to ask one of the biggest questions of your life.

Today’s Couples Want Personalization

Engagement ring shopping has changed dramatically over the last decade.

Instead of choosing a ring sitting in a display case, more couples are building one that’s uniquely theirs.

They choose:
  • The exact diamond
  • The perfect setting
  • White, yellow, or rose gold
  • Platinum
  • Hidden halos
  • Cathedral settings
  • Band styles that match their personality

No two relationships are identical.

Why should engagement rings be?

At Ritani, we’ve embraced this shift by making it easy to build a ring around the exact diamond you love, giving you the flexibility to create something that’s truly personal—not just another stock design.

Transparency Matters Just As Much As Sparkle

Buying an engagement ring is one of the most significant purchases many people will ever make.

Unfortunately, it’s also one of the most confusing.

Many shoppers don’t realize that two diamonds with the exact same grading report can sometimes be listed at very different prices depending on the retailer.

That’s why transparency matters.

Rather than asking customers to simply trust marketing claims, Ritani believes shoppers should have access to the information they need to make confident decisions.

That’s why we created tools that help customers:
  • Compare certified diamonds side by side
  • Understand how diamonds are priced
  • Explore current market pricing
  • Build a ring around the exact diamond they choose

When you understand what you’re buying, you’re far more likely to love your purchase for years to come.

Because the biggest surprise should be the proposal—not the price.

The Most Memorable Proposal Isn’t Always the Most Dramatic

It’s easy to get caught up in viral moments.

But long after the Instagram Reel disappears and the headlines fade, what remains is the life you build together.

The best proposals aren’t measured by how many views they receive.

They’re measured by how meaningful they are to the two people involved.

Whether you’re proposing on a rooftop overlooking New York City or in the place where your story first began, the goal is the same:

Create a moment that’s uniquely yours.

And choose a ring you’ll be just as proud of decades from now as you were on the day you slipped it onto their finger.

No skyscraper required.

Ready to find a ring that’s as unique as your relationship?

Explore Ritani’s educational tools, compare certified diamonds with confidence, and design an engagement ring that’s built around your story.